In the time we live in, it has become both, simpler and harder to find someone to spend life with and keep healthy relationships.
Sometimes people fall in love at once but oftentimes such relationships end up with a failure. People stop believing in love from the first sight. In point of fact, we fall in love with a posture, the way a person is dressed… and at bottom, they realize to what social class a person belongs to, his/her world views. Other features are available later anyway so it cannot be told that a human is lost barely looking and liking someone.
Let us look at people who are divorced. It means that at some point they had a good partner so they will have another one. Somebody is lucky at the first try, somebody is not. You may think your partner is that only one when some factors interfere and things get to change.
Quite often, it is a monkey business to try and change a partner so s/he was perfect. It happens rarely for a person to correspond with the other’s views. Sometimes we know how many beans make five being out of a character ourselves.
To meet expectations, we may think it over what a person next to us really needs and to add to the list a few important qualities, which make them happy: honesty, ambitions, sense of humor or else.
Some people try to copy relationships other people have. Let us imagine that you are close with your mother. You talk a lot and basically are on the same wave length. If to put these relationships onto a sexual partner, that might not work, you did not feel passion to your parents or a friend after all.
Sexual drive makes another environment. There is a place for jealousy for example. You have different worldviews; men usually are less vulnerable than women are. So, an attempt to copy relationships will most likely fail.
Some might come up with a question, which lies within a necessity to think what you tell your partner. The thing is not about you being unable to tell your partner something. You may as long as you trust him/her. Some things though are better to be told a friend. For example, she might take news about gaining some extra weight easy while your partner will start feeling uncomfortable getting naked. Same thing with ex partners. If there is a jealousy in relationships, a friend knows about it (we all did stupid things), a man though might react in an unexpended way.
The most important thing is to leave the past in the past. It does not matter what you went through in your previous relationships, you should not drag it down into your current ones.
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