Dating with herpes is always a difficult thing for people living with herpes. Many of them are suffered stigma from other people when they disclose their situation to others when dating online. They shouldn’t have to obey the judgment in public, they can enjoy love like others. Here, MPWH (Meet People with Herpes), a herpes-only people community shares some thoughts on do’s And don’s When Dating With Herpes, that will help others know more about herpes persons.
Don’t show stigma when you know your partner has herpes, it will deeply hurt them, even their whole life. Don’t judge them as dirty people because they have contracted with herpes as many of them catch herpes when they just have only a partner, mostly, they are cheated by their partners. Don’t leave them alone but do give some warmness and kindness when you have “The talk”. Do some research if you really don’t know what is herpes, that will help you know more about herpes and other STDs, the same, is a good way to protect yourself and have a healthy sex.
Someone ever said that he is broken because of catching herpes, actually no. Herpes is a lesson in your life, in addition, herpes can be managed well with good physical and mental treatment. However, people should always keep a healthy sex habit and take regular STD or Herpes testing, that will help avoid sexually transmitted infections effectively.
Moreover, if you are really caught herpes, don’t feel lonely and depressed, many people living with herpes and other STDs join some STDs or herpes communities to find support and love as these communities can always offer a free-stigma and warm environment for them to say any topics related to STDs. MPWH is a good choice if you want to find support, friends, love or just want to talk after you live with herpes. Many herpes singles find successfully encouragement and even find their love here.
